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May 29 2008

A quick note about coffee

Its days like today that make me think I have a coffee addiction. I’ve been up for 8 hours, sort of forgot to have coffee and now I’m ready to go to bed. Well I’m not ready but I need caffeine or I’ll fall asleep all the same.

I drink coffee every day, much like a lot of people, but today it sort of got away from me, time passed and I never got around to my loving cup o’ joe. This in itself is not the sign of addiction which is why it gets complicated and I begin to flip-flop. You see I get headaches if I don’t get the caffeine. But then I think I probably am not addicted because I don’t think addicts sit around thinking about if they have a problem.

I guess the real bottom line is that, whether or not I have a problem, I don’t want to be cured. We all need our little addictions; maybe they help us stay sane. If it’s not hurting anyone be thankful, some addicts aren’t so lucky. 

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May 27 2008

Double Standard much?

Published by cherrylemonade under political Edit This

Last week Hillary Clinton said that she would not drop out of the Presidential race because you never know what may happen, sighting the fact that Robert Kennedy was murdered in June. This led to a media uproar because apparently this was a death threat made to Barack Obama. It made headlines; I admit it wasn’t the brightest thing to bring up because by now she should know that anything she says is scrutinized.  There is a definite double standard in the way media has covered the two democrats. I’m sure it seems like I’m just another Clinton supporter who is becoming a sore loser but there really is.  Yesterday Barack said, “I had an uncle who was part of the first American troops to go into Auschwitz and liberate the concentration camps.”  What a compelling tale, except that the Russians liberated that camp. I’m an American History buff; trust me I know what I’m talking about.  Now in the interest of fairness, he is actually related to someone who liberated one of the smaller camps, Buchenwald.  The lying isn’t what I have a problem with. He made a mix-up or maybe he said a well known camp to emphasize his point. That was a war that ended almost sixty years ago and there are more important issues that should be discussed by the candidates and media alike. There is a war in the Middle East, how about that? And what about health care- AIDS, child diseases? Then there’s our crumbling infrastructure and New Orleans is still in ruins. Maybe talk about climate change. These are issues that should be in the forefront but the coverage this year isn’t about the issues.  Sure I think this is wrong but the issue I have is the double standard.If Clinton said this, she’d have been grilled to death. She always is. When he says it, it’s not even mention in the newspaper, forget about the headline. What is wrong with this? Are they scared of him? Do they not want to appear to be racists because they don’t have a problem appearing sexist. Or is it, and I can only imagine it must be this, that the American Press Corp is too scared to piss off Oprah for fear she will destroy them or stop giving away free cars or cancel her show, because if that happened how would people see Tom Cruise go crazy live. How would people know what to do if Oprah doesn’t tell them, then American’s would have to choose for themselves who would make the best president based on issues and voting records?

Nobody wants that because thinking is hard.

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May 26 2008

WARNING! summer romances ahead

 

As the summer goes into full swing I feel the need to talk about summer love. It can be a wonderful thing but girls (and I suppose boys) need to understand that when the season ends, usually the relationship goes with it. Life isn’t High School Musical. In real life Troy and Gabriella don’t get back together in time to make beautiful music on the side of a rock formation (ior for that matter make endless sequels.)

I give you know, my first boyfriend, a cautionary tale that’s waited 4 years to be told.

           

            Having survived our freshman year of High school, my best friend and I decided to share the first job experience. We became counselor in training at a local camp. At the time it seemed like a good idea but by the end we both regretted it. The staff was catty and we were the outsiders, the tention got so bad my BFF took two weeks off to go camping with her father.  She went through some depressing time and battled away an eating disorder.  There was a time we’d thought she’d need a psychologist but it never got to that.

 

            One bright spot of the summer was my first boyfriend lets call him Christian. Christian and I met on the first day and decided we would date soon after. Christian was wonderful, your typical tall (over 6 foot), dark (European looking), and handsome type and we shared most of the same interests. He was a soon to be senior and a lifeguard, who loved every child as if it was his own.

 

The only problem with him was his mama’s boy complex. Christian’s mother wanted him to become a priest and felt like our dating was corrupting him. This is kind of laughable in retrospect because the only thing we ever did was kiss because I was only 14 and he was going to be a priest. Non-the less his mother didn’t approve of “the hussy” and when Camp ended so did we.

 

We vowed to stay friends, which of course never happened. I refused to cry in front of him, choosing instead to play the CD of “With Arms Wide Open,” by Creed that he used to sing to me, over and over, and sobbing helplessly. To this day, while I am over him, I can’t here that song without thinking of him sitting by the pool singing and mocking it’s video. He is now on the road to becoming a priest, he still asks for me whenever he sees my mother or one of my friends.

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May 25 2008

THE MOLE RETURNS

Published by cherrylemonade under TV Edit This

     In anticipation for the return of The Mole, next Monday on ABC, I have been watching the old episodes. The show, which originally aired circa 2000-2003, gained my attention last year when I stumbled upon the fact that Anderson Cooper, current CNN news-hottie, was the host of the first two installments.
     A friend of mine owned season one on DVD and, after watching it I was hooked. The mind games, the obsession of what could be a clue- it’s insane and completely addicting. I can’t imagine what it must be like as an actual player when, as a viewer, I can’t decide who to trust.
     Seasons three and four were celebrity editions and while the replacement host was a dud, the drama was just as great. Now season 5 comes along, thank goodness because as I mentioned I’m hooked, and again the host has been replaced. This time it’s former celebrity news guy, Jon Kelley. Producers of the show say that Kelly has the same dry wit that made Coop such a great host. I doubt that anyone can be as great as Anderson, but hey I’m a coop-a-holic.
     So for anyone looking for an entertaining reality show that makes you think (and I don’t mean thoughts like “how do Dina Lohan and Denise Richards still have their kids,” or “why do I watch this show”) look no further then the mind games of The Mole.

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May 23 2008

A week on TV

Published by cherrylemonade under TV Edit This

It’s been a big week for TV watchers, particularly with all the finale’s so I’m just going to try and hit on some of the things that stuck out to me, a brief hodgepodge of what I learned from my DVR.

*While the episode overall lived up to the hype, the last 10 minutes of last night’s Grey’s Anatomy was more like a middle school party than something written by talent professional writers. Maybe it was plotted out during the strike.

*On the reality show front, David Cook won American Idol, which was considered a shocker even though Simon Cowell and Paula Abdul had both said during the competition that he was a favorite to win.  Then again, if you re-watch the season, they probably said that to half of the candidates. The real “shocker” was on Dancing with the Stars when Kristie Y said that she was surprised to win. She was a professional ice dancer and constantly was on the top, or near the top of the leader board. Who do you think you kidding Kristie?

*Commercial- I hate commercials for the most part. They make little sense, try to have plot and are distracting.  The only “products” they make me think of are snacks and bathrooms because they are what I leave the room for during them.  However, lately they have been distracting me in a good way. The Mole is back!!! I can’t wait and they are finally showing real commercials about the June 1st premier rather than weird subliminal messaging.

The other commercial grabbing my attention is for Guitar Hero.  It is a takeoff of that famous Risky Business scene where Tom Cruise dances around to “Old Time Rock and Roll” in his undies, however in the new version David Cook is replacing TC. If you are a frequent reader, you can understand why I’m so distracted and if you’re not a frequent reader, you need to ask yourself why aren’t you? 

And lastly, today on Regis and Kelly Neal Patrick Harris mentioned the death of his partner David’s mother. My heart goes out to David and his family.

 

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May 21 2008

we can all make differences

I know that I have already posted about David Cook once and his amazing music but I forgot to mention that he is an inspiration.  

I had been waffling back and forth about cutting my hair and donating it to charity, like Pantene Beautiful Lengths.(  http://www.beautifullengths.com/en_US/   )It is a good cause but I’m a girl who really loves her hair. Long and blond, I’ll admit it is my best quality- and possible the only one I like. In the last 15 years it hasn’t been shorter than shoulder length and the prospect of it scared me- 9 inches off would take it have way up my neck.  Around the time of “Idol Gives Back,” my internal debate was heating up and my family was hit with cancer. In fact I heard about my aunt the same week as the news broke that Cook’s brother was suffering from brain cancer (the same kind as my aunt eerily.)  

I felt helpless as I heard the bad odd she would face. “A few months, maybe a year,” Doctors had said. “One day she’ll just not wake up.” It was awful and all she kept saying was, “I don’t want to lose my hair.”  I was baffled as I watched Idol, how could that be her biggest concern.  Then Cook had “Give Back” written on his hand as if it was the answer I had to give in.

I couldn’t understand her and yet I was debating a haircut, drastic haircut but still. A woman’s relationship with her hair is a love affair. It makes us feel  happy and special, beautiful and secure. But just like some love affairs, sometimes it is lost. I could help someone find a new love, while giving my follicle romance a makeover. 

As I settle in to watch Cook for the last time tonight, or at least the last time as an American Idol contestant (and as he gets crowned- hope hope), my Aunt has taken a turn for the better, Cook’s brother will be in the audience-which I hope means his family has received the same kinds of miracles as mine-  and I will be nervously playing with my chin-length hair hoping that my donation has made someone smile the way David Cook makes me smile.

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May 20 2008

a little bit of trash

One Man’s Trash… 

            Trash movies, we all know them.  They are the movies we love but don’t always admit to watching, at least not to everyone.  They are the movies that we have somewhere on a DVD shelf but still manage to watch every time they are on. People can go on constantly about how bad they are, how the way they were shot is a mess, and that the acting is over the top but it doesn’t affect our love for them, or perhaps it is the exact reason we love them.  Like a good friend you’ve known for years, trash movies are flawed, perhaps not pretty, but they are always there to make you smile when you need to most.         

    For me, one of these movies is The Most Unfabulous Social Life of Ethan Greene.  Based on a comic strip with a cult following of mostly gay men, it is the story of Ethan Greene as he struggles with love and friendship and crossing the line between the two. Having never seen or heard of the comic or the movie, I picked it up in a blockbuster one day mostly because it had a plethora of cute men on the cover and the movie I was looking for was out.          

     In the film, Greene’s ex-boyfriend Leo is selling his house that Greene still resides in, and announces he is going to marry a log cabin Republican named Chester Bear.  This sparks Greene to dump his current love interest, an ex-baseball player who recently came out of the closet, because he wants what Leo and Chester have. He bounces around on this topic for a while, dating a party boy, think Paris Hilton but male, but it’s obvious from two minutes into the film that Leo is who he really wants.  Along with the transparent plot, other harsh criticism I’ve heard is that the movie plays on cheap laughs, is at times unrealistic, and was shot in two weeks and that you can tell.  

           I’ll admit that, as far as continuity goes, this is a very poorly edited film. At one point Ethan picks up a Starbucks and a second later he’s walking with a Dunkin Donuts coffee, another time he’s in a book store and you can tell the film’s been reversed because a sign in the window has hello spelled backwards.  However, if you’re not Scorsese, stop paying such attention to the detail and enjoy the movie.   And no the movie isn’t all “realistic,” when Ethan talks to the TV it talks back and when he plays Dreamdate, Reichen Lemkul of the Amazing Race shows up at his door. Those things don’t happen but its fun to imagine.   

         As for the cheap laughs, that’s the fun of it. There are two men who always dress with big woman’s hats on and moo-moos, but still maintain their mustaches. They in no way resemble women but Chester insists the must be female because they are dressed in female attire.  I don’t know why I laugh when Leo and two men are found locked in a bathroom, the men only visible from the necks up there is a, bubble maker and Leo says, “I was just watching.” I don’t even understand what the bubbles have to do with it, but I laughed so hard I need to run to the bathroom.  Another time, in a nod perhaps to The Sound of Music and Gone with the Wind, someone is seen wearing a shower curtain.   

           The only criticism I’ve heard that I’d consider a valid reason not to watch is that, when compared to the comic strip, it doesn’t compare to the constant hilarity and fantasy that made it so much fun to read. However as I have never seen the comic, that hasn’t affected me. I know this movie isn’t great art or a classic, but when it’s over I always feel happy and full of life which is something Casablanca- as much as I adore it- just doesn’t do.                                                     

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May 19 2008

OMG

Published by cherrylemonade under TV Edit This

I had planned on writing something completely different today but then Marc Cherry had to go and make Desperate Housewives end like that!

                As someone who has watched DH since episode one, I long ago stopped being surprised by what could happen on Wisteria Lane.  Whether it’s trapping people in basements, mass murders in supermarkets, or cryptic notes the show constantly proves that they can push the limits of conventional wisdom (and even reality.)  Cheesy, Over the top, and entertaining to be sure but when the promos tell me that I’ll be talking about it all summer, I sort of shrug.  I’ll talk about it, but maybe for a day and if it’s really great a week.  Then I don’t think about it again until the next episode.

                So as I settled in to watch the last episode until the fall, I was greeted with the usual tying up of storylines that occurs at this time of year on shows across the network.  I knew there’s have to be a cliff hanger- it wouldn’t be a serial drama if it didn’t- and I began thinking about what it would be. Last week Brother & Sisters, had “shocked” viewers with a mystery baby picture and the lure of a illegitimate child, so that had already been taken.

                 As the last commercial break had come to a close, one thing was pressing on my mind. I had seen the name Gale Harold in the title sequence and he hadn’t appeared. Harold, who appeared on the short-lived Vanished a few seasons back and who lives in obscurity in little seen Indy films, just happens to be one of my favorite actors and when I saw his name my heart leaped. As the show went on I thought, “ There’s a wedding, maybe he’ll be a wedding guest. Oh here comes the police, I bet he’s one of them.” But it seemed every scene came and went and no Gale, where was my Gale.  

                Seconds remained on the show, as it flashed 5 years into the future. Bree is a successful business woman; could he be her son’s boyfriend? No. There’s Katharine on the phone; maybe he’s with her? Didn’t happen. Gabby has kids, but no he’s not the live in Manny. They must have forgotten him, or it was a different guy with the same name, I figured, because there goes Susan into her house and she’s calling to her honey- her honey Mike who she’s been in love with and they just had their baby last episode/ 5 years ago and they are happy, finally, and OMG Gale Harold’s Honey!

                Now all I have is questions, question to plague me until the show returns. Where’s Mike? Is he dead? Is he on Drugs again? Will the show pick up after the 5 year jump or do we have to wait 5 season to see how the ladies got this far? Will Gale be there as a regular come fall?

                Questions, Questions, Questions! No Answers! Thank you very much Marc Cherry, thanks for ruining my summer with your mind games. Now I’m obsessed with this, it will occupy my mind until I get my answers- which you probably won’t give us until the end of next season!

               

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May 16 2008

And now the next step

Published by cherrylemonade under political Edit This

            As a card carrying fag hag, and a graduate of a one of the most liberal universities in the USA, it is my belief that we are all created equal and therefore being born a straight woman shouldn’t entitle me to any rights that are not universal. It is in this spirit that I would just like to congratulate all those GLBT men and women who are now allowed to marry in the state of California. It is a huge move in the right direction and with any luck, the rest of the nation will soon follow in suit. However, it is only one victory in a still unequal world.         

    Randy Harrison, playing his role of Justin Taylor on Queer as Folk once stated, “I’m not a child. I’m turning 18 soon. That means I can vote, and get married, and join the army.” Not exactly true. While I’m fairly sure that the government hasn’t taken away the right to vote- though perhaps they have eliminated counting of votes- and it is now legal for Justin (if he were real) to marry, there is a tiny issue with the army thing.         

    Gay military members are attacked by peers under suspicion of their sexuality and there is little or no protection because “Don’t ask. Don’t tell” doesn’t work. “Don’t Ask, Don’t tell” is the commonly known term for the U.S. military policy prohibiting anyone who has sexual contact with a person of the same sex from serving in the Armed Forces of the United States Army, United States Navy, United States Marine Corps, United States Air Force, and the United States Coast Guard, or attending school at any of the United States military academies: West Point (Army), Annapolis (Navy), and the United States Air Force Academy in Colorado Springs. It also prohibits any homosexual or bisexual from disclosing his or her sexuality and speaking about any homosexual relationships, either past or present, during their service in the United States Armed Forces. The policy states however that if homosexuals or bisexuals hide his or her sexual orientation, commanders are not allowed to investigate his or her sexuality. When this was introduced in 1993 after President Bill Clinton’s campaign promise to allow all citizens regardless of sexual orientation to serve openly in the military, it was thought by many to be an improvement to the previous policy, a complete ban on those who are not heterosexual.  According to The Pentagon’s New Policy Guidelines on Homosexuals in the Military, “Sexual orientation will not be a bar to service unless manifested by homosexual conduct. The military will discharge members, who engage in homosexual conduct, which is defined as a homosexual act, a statement that the member is homosexual or bisexual, or a marriage or attempted marriage to someone of the same gender.” (The New York Times, July 20, 1993, p.A14)The problem, however, is that this policy is not always carried out and even when it is it doesn’t truly protect the gay men and women.      

       “President Clinton wanted to end discrimination in the armed forces, but he has instead presided over the institutionalization of anti-gay animus,” explains Janet Halley in her book Don’t: A Reader’s Guide to the Military’s Anti-Gay Policy. “Military commanders still ask service members whether they are gay, and soldiers have no legal protection when the question is put to them.”        

     The policy actually institutes more homophobic ideals then the previous one and endangers the careers of not only homosexuals but also heterosexuals because it does not cover when someone other than the gay party reports them as being gay. Halley depicts a scene for her readers.    

         “A woman turned down the heterosexual overture of a fellow service member. He thought that meant that she was a lesbian. She was put through the whole process. She didn’t have to have sex with another woman to get kicked out, she didn’t have to say she was gay, she just had to create in somebody’s mind the reasonable inference that she was gay.”       

      Now both gay men and women and straight men and women must fear that they will be “outted” because if they piss someone off, that person can report them as a possible homosexual and whether or not it’s true they are dragged through a long interrogation process.        

     First a cadet would be sent to the Military branch’s Office of Special Investigation, where an investigation is set underway to determine if that person has committed any homosexual acts. They are also probed for names of other possible homosexuals. Once under investigation the cadet (or cadets) is pulled from classes, if they are in an academy, or active duty immediately and separated from their peers. In most cases the cadet in placed in a facility for mental disorder and then sent to military court to have a conduct evaluation by anyone the military allows to be present. This sometimes includes family and friends who don’t know the cadet is or may be gay. Regardless of the outcome, this entire process is documented on the cadet’s personal file. After the trial it is decided whether or not the cadet is guilty and if so they are dismissed from service with an un-honorable or less than honorable discharge and sometimes punished with jail time because according to the Uniform Code of Military Justice “the act of using the sex organs in any other way than for penile-vaginal sex, is illegal.” If the cadet is found innocent they are put back into service, where they will most likely be tormented about the investigation until at least the end of their service time.             

         “They should have named it Permission to Lie,” explains Reichen Lehmkuhl whose memoir about life in the Air Force Academy, Here’s What We’ll Say: Growing Up, Coming Out, and the United States Air Force tackles the topic of gay discrimination in the Military. “In the Air Force Honor Code we promise ‘We will not lie, steal or cheat, nor tolerate among us anyone who does’ but that’s exactly what Don’t Ask, Don’t tell asked gay men and women to do.”    

            Furthermore Lehmkuhl believes that the policy challenges the integrity of the United States Armed Forces and might lead to a breakdown in the system or a less stable fighting force.            “Any policy that inherently tells someone to lie will eventually break a person down…The policy will also, eventually break down the organization that sanctions it. Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell will eventually put a wedge between not only gay people and straight people serving side by side in the military because it fosters lies, it will eventually place gay people themselves against one another.”               

             So why does such a prestigious institution disallow a large percentage of Americans? Most people claim the ban is because homosexual military members might lead to sex between cadets.             “I never once heard a male cadet argue that women shouldn’t be allowed to serve in the military because it might lead to sex nor have I heard the opposite,” Lehmkuhl argues. “Heavy sexual intimacy between two cadets or sex in the dorms was illegal and we all knew it. Still sex, and I of course mean heterosexual sex, was completely tolerated and overlooked.”             

        Halley believes the goal has to be unification in treatment of same-sex and cross-sex erotic activity. “I think that you want the least amount of regulation of sexuality you can have and still get your goals. The military has goals. It is a distinctive organization… So I don’t know what the right level of sexuality in the military is. But my push would be always [to] try to have less. If people want to have sex with each other and the work gets done, fine.”Another reason that people point to as why homosexuals cannot serve openly in the military is that it might make people who don’t like gay people uncomfortable which is bad for morale. Since when does America cater to discrimination? These arguments are the same as ones used for years to keep out racial minorities and women. However over time most military personnel have been trained to accept or, at least tolerate, racial and sexual integration and the contribution by these parties has been substantial.  So is the time to integrate once more upon us? In one of the most publicized instances of the failures of Don’t ask Don’t tell, Army Private Barry Winchell was beaten to death with a baseball bat in his sleep by a fellow soldier on July 5, 1999. In the months leading up to his death Winchell was secretly dating male-to-female transgendered women, Calpernia Addams. (From the actual Uniform Code of Military Justice “A member of the armed forces shall be seperated from the armed forces if… he or she has engaged in a sexual act…with a person known to be of the same biological sex). After Winchell told his roomate Justin Fisher, rumors of the relationship began to spred. Winchell became the target of ongoing harassment, but he was afraid to report it out of fear that he would be perceived as homosexual. His story was made into a TV movie Soldier’s Girl in late May, 2003.     

       During his Presidential run in 2000 Al Gore, who had been Clinton’s Vice-President during the initial “Don’t Ask Don’t Tell” decision, said, “In light of the Winchell case and other evidence, I believe the ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ policy should be eliminated.”          

   He went on to say, that homosexuals should be allowed to serve their country without fear of discrimination, that he was in favor of an outright end to the ban on gays in the military during Clinton’s Presidency, and that if he were elected President, “I will make those changes and propose legislation in Congress to eliminate this unacceptable form of discrimination.” That day never arrived but perhaps the 2008 election will have better results. Hilary Clinton  has on several occasions called for an end to the policy and even Former President Clinton is quoted as saying that don’t ask don’t tell had not been implemented as was intended, and that it was never supposed to facilitate rooting out people who are gay or allow for harassment. On November 22 2006, fourteen retired military leaders filed a brief urging the First Circuit Court of Appeals to reverse a lower court ruling regarding the federal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” ban, in support of the plaintiffs in Cook v. Rumsfeld, a constitutional challenge to the law. Included in the signatures were Carolyn Becraft, the former Assistant Secretary of the Navy and Former Assistant Secretary of Defense Lawrence J. Korb.The brief argues, “The experience of numerous foreign militaries culturally similar to the United States uniformly demonstrates that the integration of openly gay service members has no adverse effect on cohesion. It is the law not the actions of the military’s many loyal, talented homosexual service members that undermines military capability.” It goes on to say that during former wars “the Armed Forces formally and informally implemented stop-loss policies that resulted in the retention of openly gay service members until the time of crisis had passed, undermining the military’s assertion that openly gay troops negatively impact unit cohesion or morale.” The brief finishes up by saying that the law “undermines the military’s ability to fulfill its primary mission of providing national security by discouraging the enlistment of gay persons qualified to serve their country and by expelling from the military those who have served with honor.”“This brief is an important milestone in the public debate about ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,’ as senior military leaders are now publicly criticizing the ban,” said C. Dixon Osburn, executive director of Service-members Legal Defense Network. “In the past, courts have deferred to what they perceived as a policy preferred by military leaders to further military readiness. That has not been, and is not now, the case.” Things seem to slowly be changing as the American public begins to wake up to this huge injustice. With any luck, in ten years or so gay men and women will be able to serve freely in the military.               

   

  

            

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May 16 2008

Why David Cook Should Win AI

Published by cherrylemonade under TV Edit This

cook1.jpgAs the Democrats fought on through primary after primary, the barbs getting harder to deal with by the day, I turned my attention to the other big race in America.  While most people would say that American Idol is losing its luster, I find this year to be the best yet based solely on artist David Cook.

                The 25 year old rocker, whose been compared to Daughtry, has given new life to the show by proving week after week that being an American Idol doesn’t mean you have to be a glorified Karaoke singer.  He’s shown versatility and creativity when faced with the ominous task of performing Mariah Carey, Andrew Lloyd Webber, and worst of all Dolly Parton.  His choices-Always Be My Baby, Music of the Night, and Little Sparrow- don’t scream Chris Daughtryesque but when Cook was done with them, they showed that his musical skills go far beyond vocal talent.

                However, though “Cookie,” as some have taken to calling him, is clearly the most talented, American idol has proven time and time again it’s a popularity contest as well.

                Unlike others artist, both past and present, DC seems the most genuine. He freely admits that he tried out to support his brother.  He also isn’t playing the part of “ideal idol.” By this I mean the person who cries on cue, NEVER NEVER disagrees with the judges, and use every aspect of their lives to their advantage.

                Cook has cried, or to be more accurate teared up, due to what could obviously be seen as emotion. He quickly whipped his eyes and moved on. He has on occasion even disagreed with the judges and has claimed that speaking his mind has gotten him in trouble in life. But the most respectable thing Is that he doesn’t exploit his life. His older brother Adam currently suffers from cancer, but you wouldn’t know it from him. The media exposed it and made a story about it but he ignored Ryan Secrest’s attempts to get him to talk about his feelings when Adam, accompanied by his wife and trained medical professionals, was seated in the audience.  Though the pair is close, Cook says that he made a promise to himself and Adam that he was going to win on his merit and not because of sympathy votes.

                Come Tuesday, a new American Idol will be named. Perhaps it will be Cook, perhaps not.  In truth American Idol needs him more than he needs them.  I’m sure it’ll be an honor to win, but Cook had set himself up with a great future with his national exposure.  If he loses, he’ll still succeed. However, with drooping ratings, can AI really afford the runner-up to outsell its winner?

               

               

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